Take time out and sit quietly to focus your mind on what you want. Imagine all the characteristics you are looking for in one person. Don’t put any physical characteristics to this person, it will only limit you. Instead, imagine what it would be like to talk to this person, how they make you feel, how you make them feel, the moments that you will share together, and how you relate to each other, what you do together…etc.  Take just 5 minutes every day to think about this and you will start to see these characteristics in people around you more clearly. This will help you to focus on the people that are right for you. (Dev)