“Firstly, stop telling yourself you’re single, you are limiting your beliefs. Instead tell yourself what a great catch you are, what great boyfriend material you make, or what an awesome girlfriend you make etc. If you change your mind-set, it will start to change your behaviour. Those girls or boys nights out where you celebrate being single can be fun, but if you honestly don’t want to be single then you’re lying to yourself by celebrating it. Instead, go out and celebrate the idea of dating. Get excited about how many people you can meet and embrace the idea of dating. It can be so much fun!” (Amber)